I don’t think you need a new life
just a new way of seeing your
(wonderful & unique) self in it!
I see you. Because I was you.
For years I played the role of the good girl, seeking approval, people-pleasing, rule-following.
Slowly climbing the ladder. But mainly feeling stuck.
From the outside, it looked like I had it together:
a steady job, a nice home, the car, the wardrobe, the achievements and the travel.
But beneath it all, I felt trapped and boxed in.
No one saw how hard I was pushing and proving myself, just to "get there" and to feel “enough.”
Yet I felt invisible. Inadequate. Unlovable.
And no matter what I achieved, the inner emptiness never left.
Then, one simple question from my friend Rachel changed everything: “What if you could feel good and happy now?”
That question stopped me in my tracks and cracked something open.
It led me to a coaching program where, for the first time in my life, I told my truth out loud . A story that I didn't think I had surfaced and I broke down sobbing.
Years of suppressed emotion and self-denial surfaced, as if someone had opened the lid of a pressure cooker.
In that vulnerable, raw release, I found something I didn’t expect: me.
That was the beginning of everything.
Since then, I’ve rebuilt my relationship with myself from the inside out.
I stopped living to prove myself.
I started tuning in instead of pushing through.
I discovered a sense of peace, purpose and aliveness I didn’t know was possible.
I learned how to listen to myself instead of the negative voice.
And now, I help women like you do the same.
Swap self-doubt for self-worth
Trade performing for growing
Stop simply existing and start feeling truly alive
Redefine success in a way that actually feels good
Lead your life with intention, not obligation
Know, deeply and unshakably, that they are always enough.
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Believer in gut feelings, fresh starts & soft landings
Ready to feel fully alive - and life with more meaning and purpose?
Let’s explore what your ‘more’ might look like, together.
Working with Susanne was so helpful, a true revelation and eye opening. I was worrying and concerned about my job, felt stressed out and wanted nothing more than to pack my bags and run away.
I had no idea what it actually means to have a relationship with myself, and to make myself a priority so that I can enjoy my career and create a drama free life.
I feel like I have woken up from a deep sleep.
Stephanie B.
Head of Marketing
Consumer Industry
The only feeling I can describe after my sessions with Susanne was one of feeling "new", totally relaxed and contented with myself. Something I haven't experienced before. Now I know what has dragged me down for so long and now I can choose not to beat myself up. I have more self esteem, a self-believe and more importantly I feel really good about myself and the work I do. Plus, I now have a vision for my future that looks positive which I didn't have before. And now that I really have a relationship with myself (I didn't know what that was before) I feel empowered and resilient.
Chris W.
Project Manager
Financial Services
Susanne is my go-to-Guru on all things awareness and "letting go" - which to me, has been a total fresh approach to all things "thinking" and very much eye opening.
Her knowledge, gentle soothing voice and empathy make her a fabulous coach and she has helped me many many times. Susanne gets to the core of an issue and offers a supportive approach.
Dawn B
Corporate Wellbeing Trainer
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