From existing to finally living
Because life is meant to FEEL good,
not only look good.
I see you. Because I was you.
For years I played the role of the good girl, seeking approval, people-pleasing, rule-following.
Slowly climbing the ladder. But mainly feeling stuck.
From the outside, it looked like I had it together:
a steady job, a nice home, the car, the wardrobe, the achievements and the travel.
But beneath it all, I felt trapped and boxed in.
No one saw how hard I was pushing and proving myself, just to "get there" and to feel “enough.”
Yet I felt invisible. Inadequate. Unlovable.
And no matter what I achieved, the inner emptiness never left.
Then, one simple question from my friend Rachel changed everything: “What if you could feel good and happy now?”
That question stopped me in my tracks and cracked something open.
It led me to a coaching program where, for the first time in my life, I told my truth out loud . A story that I didn't think I had surfaced and I broke down sobbing.
Years of suppressed emotion and self-denial surfaced, as if someone had opened the lid of a pressure cooker.
In that vulnerable, raw release, I found something I didn’t expect: me.
That was the beginning of everything.
Since then, I’ve rebuilt my relationship with myself from the inside out.
I stopped living to prove myself.
I started tuning in instead of pushing through.
I discovered a sense of peace, purpose and aliveness I didn’t know was possible.
I learned how to listen to myself instead of the negative voice.
And now, I help women like you do the same.
Swap self-doubt for self-worth
Trade performing for growing
Stop simply existing and start feeling truly alive
Redefine success in a way that actually feels good
Lead your life with intention, not obligation
Know, deeply and unshakably, that they are always enough.
Because, you don’t need to burn it all down.
You just need to come back to yourself.
And I’ll walk beside you as you do.
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Forever Student of Human Growth
Intentional Creator & Manifester
Believer in gut feelings, fresh starts & soft landings
Ready to feel fully alive - and live with more meaning and purpose?
Let’s explore what your ‘more’ might look like, together.
Working with Susanne was so helpful, a true revelation and eye opening. I was worrying and concerned about my job, felt stressed out and wanted nothing more than to pack my bags and run away.
I had no idea what it actually means to have a relationship with myself, and to make myself a priority so that I can enjoy my career and create a drama free life.
I feel like I have woken up from a deep sleep.
Stephanie B.
Head of Marketing
Consumer Industry
The only feeling I can describe after my sessions with Susanne was one of feeling "new", totally relaxed and contented with myself. Something I haven't experienced before. Now I know what has dragged me down for so long and now I can choose not to beat myself up. I have more self esteem, a self-believe and more importantly I feel really good about myself and the work I do. Plus, I now have a vision for my future that looks positive which I didn't have before. And now that I really have a relationship with myself (I didn't know what that was before) I feel empowered and resilient.
Chris W.
Project Manager
Financial Services
Susanne is my go-to-Guru on all things awareness and "letting go" - which to me, has been a total fresh approach to all things "thinking" and very much eye opening.
Her knowledge, gentle soothing voice and empathy make her a fabulous coach and she has helped me many many times. Susanne gets to the core of an issue and offers a supportive approach.
Dawn B
Corporate Wellbeing Trainer
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